Follow The Rules

Children are taught to always follow the rules. Society as we know it might come to a screeching halt! Which rules to follow and when changes as we age. People become more discerning. There are penalties adults pay when rules are broken. The mind balances the potential rewards with the potential of getting caught. Not much thought is given to how often our laws, or rules, are fractured. I believe that we could all use a good reminder about the benefit of playing by the rules.

State and federal laws must come first. Murder is a big no-no. Paying taxes is another necessary evil along with jury duty. Obeying the speed limit is a must unless one does not mind paying tickets. These laws were enacted with the sole purpose of keeping us safe. Taxes pay for public services. The courts ensure the just are freed and the guilty punished. Traffic is controlled in order to reduce roadway fatalities.

Every city has its share of ordinances that every resident must obey. Trash can only be put out one day a week. Lawns have a height limit. Broken down autos are not to be kept in one's backyard. These and other rules exist so that uniformity is achieved and to protect our property values from falling. Just one ugly home or yard can affect the values of an entire block.

There is also another type of rules that are not written in stone. They might be found in books on etiquette or in a Ms. Manners column. They are covenants of a sort that help to ensure we all get along. It is all about being thoughtful and polite. Saying "bless you" when someone sneezes. Preventing your grocery cart from hitting another shopper. Not invading someone's personal space. They all help us live in peace with each other.

As adults we tend to follow the rules less and rationalize our actions more. An old adage comes to mind: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. As vital as it is to think critically about our actions it is just as important to consider how they affect others and the world around us. I do not wish to sound like a broken record. I have discussed this issue in previous posts. Let this simply be a reminder that other people matter too!